a serious blog post today

As much as I try to keep this blog light, I do have to say God Bless all the families and children affected by the shooting in Newtown.  This is a tragedy.  Please boycott all media that shows the pictures of people crying after the shooting.  Those people were fearful of the lives of their children and reporters were taking pictures.  Do not listen to interviews with children from the shooting.  Those children need to be sheltered and protected.....we are adults, we protect the kids first and worry about news later (or never , who cares, kids first). 
I'm all for fun social media, facebook, blogs (like this normally fun one here), etc, but not for the media who exploits people.  I've hosted many charity events that media has refused to attend saying "People don't care about that".  Show them they're wrong by tuning out for this story.....respect the families and show you care with your prayers or moment of silence if you aren't religious.
Lila

spread holiday cheer

Well everyone Lila is a self-confessed Christmas cornball, and so I wanted to write about holiday cheer today.  I'm skipping gifts with my four closest friends and enjoying a night out instead...whats better than times with friends and family?  I'm also doing something nice for someone today and Monday and making a charitable donation.....spread holiday cheer and it makes you feel better.
And spread that cheer at home too....surprise your man or woman with some morning sex (it's free and fun:).
Stay sexy,
LIla

guest blog

I am a guest blogger on fourseducedmuses.blogspot.com....sorry I cant give away the content...you have to visit to see...but check me out:)
STay sexy,
Lila

holiday spirit

I've been hit by the holiday spirit...really wanting to go see the tree at Rockefeller Center, buy Christmas gifts, all that jazz:).  And of course , in the true spirit of being me, I really want to buy one of those Santa inspired lingerie pieces....are those sexy?  Guys , weigh in on that for me:).
Stay sexy,
Lila

monday....where I am and where I wish i was

MOndays stink don't they?  Right now its after my MOnday AM workout (if I don't get up early I won't do it) and it's about time for work.
Right about now, I wish I was at a great bed and breakfast having morning sex.....a girl can dream right.
STay sexy,
Lila

Putting spice back into your sex life Part VII

AHH we are finally on the seventh step here:).  Hopefully your sex life is getting hot and steamy as you've been working through these.

I saved the most daring for the end...hoping that you are now a sex god or goddess if you've been following my advice to this point.

Part VII Watch porn or read erotica with your partner

Don't cringe yet.  The good idea about you introducing this is that you pick the porn or erotica to share.  Think about yourself and your lover when you choose which one to do, watch or read (not saying you can't do both....I have).  If you're more visual, watch a porno.  If you have a great imagination, read erotica.  Both give you some good ideas and get those creative juices flowing. 
Some women think porn shows that we should be these plastic, perfectly thin creatures....to that I reply, only if you aren't confident.  I am much sexier than those women.....but that doesn't mean I can't borrow their ideas.

While we're on topic....may I remind you that I write erotica:).  Oh...and if you check out my website this month, http://lilahart.yolasite.com there is a chance to win a custom written short story by yours truly.  Your names, your plot, and you can take credit for it.  What's sexier than that.  Check it out to win.  Or go to www.redrosepublishing.com to buy Best Vacation Ever or Protect Me to read with your lover.

SEriously though ......buy whatever works for you.  Porn is great too, and you can rent some at your local adult video store.  If you live in CT, I recommend VIP (wish they had a frequent shopper card).


I want to add in a bonus "rule" before I end the putting spice back into your sex life series.  If you are someone who shares your sexual life details with friends (umm might wanna reconsider that, but if you must), do not worry about what other people think.  Some people are prudes (I generally don't play nice with those people).  You go out there and have fun, have great sex, be wild.  Tis the season to be jolly in bed.

Stay Sexy,
Lila

putting spice back in your sex life part VI

Let someone into your imagination ....share fantasies

Let's be honest, we all have that sexy, race, possibly forbidden fantasy that we are nervous to share, but his author is saying go ahead.  This is not to say you or your partner must fulfilll it exaactly as imagined (maybe your fantasy of having sex in a park filled with people might get you wearing an unsexy black and white jumpsuit, but I'm there is a more secluded outdoor locale where you can get it on:).  Email me if you need some hints.
Oops...off topic:). 
Odds are your fantasy is something your lover has heard before.  I once had someone refuse to reveal their fantasy to me until I kept hounding and hounding.  The "forbidden fantasy" was to watch a woman touch herself until she came.  NO big deal and one I was more than happy to fulfill. 
Want to be more adventurous?  Choose days to fulfill a fantasy of yourself and your partner.  Lots of sex filled fun nights ahead with that plan. And what's sexier than being the fantasy god or goddess who grants wishes?
Comments or questions...post them:).
STay sexy,
LIla