AHH we are finally on the seventh step here:). Hopefully your sex life is getting hot and steamy as you've been working through these.
I saved the most daring for the end...hoping that you are now a sex god or goddess if you've been following my advice to this point.
Part VII Watch porn or read erotica with your partner
Don't cringe yet. The good idea about you introducing this is that you pick the porn or erotica to share. Think about yourself and your lover when you choose which one to do, watch or read (not saying you can't do both....I have). If you're more visual, watch a porno. If you have a great imagination, read erotica. Both give you some good ideas and get those creative juices flowing.
Some women think porn shows that we should be these plastic, perfectly thin creatures....to that I reply, only if you aren't confident. I am much sexier than those women.....but that doesn't mean I can't borrow their ideas.
While we're on topic....may I remind you that I write erotica:). Oh...and if you check out my website this month, http://lilahart.yolasite.com there is a chance to win a custom written short story by yours truly. Your names, your plot, and you can take credit for it. What's sexier than that. Check it out to win. Or go to www.redrosepublishing.com to buy Best Vacation Ever or Protect Me to read with your lover.
SEriously though ......buy whatever works for you. Porn is great too, and you can rent some at your local adult video store. If you live in CT, I recommend VIP (wish they had a frequent shopper card).
I want to add in a bonus "rule" before I end the putting spice back into your sex life series. If you are someone who shares your sexual life details with friends (umm might wanna reconsider that, but if you must), do not worry about what other people think. Some people are prudes (I generally don't play nice with those people). You go out there and have fun, have great sex, be wild. Tis the season to be jolly in bed.
Stay Sexy,
Lila
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